ALYSSA<\/strong>
\nSo your friend’s quite the homophobe.<\/p>\nHOLDEN<\/strong>
\nHe just feels left out, I think.<\/p>\n ALYSSA<\/strong>
\nI’m not talking about his infantile hang-up with me. I’m talking about when you two were playing that game. Everytime he swore – when his players messed up, he called them cocksuckers, he referred to the players as queers, he called you a cock-teaser…<\/p>\nHOLDEN<\/strong>
\nI thought he was talking to you.<\/p>\n ALYSSA<\/strong>
\nI know you think it means nothing, and it may in fact be unintentional, but it’s ugly all the same.<\/p>\nHOLDEN<\/strong>
\nHe was just pissed he was losing.<\/p>\n ALYSSA<\/strong>
\nSo he slams the gay community?<\/p>\nHOLDEN<\/strong>
\nC’mon. Don’t get all p.c. on me.<\/p>\n ALYSSA<\/strong>
\nI’m not. But what is that saying?<\/p>\nHOLDEN<\/strong>
\nIt says he gets too easily frustrated.<\/p>\n ALYSSA<\/strong>
\nIt’s passive\/agressive gay-bashing.<\/p>\nHOLDEN<\/strong>
\nHow do you figure?<\/p>\n ALYSSA<\/strong>
\nHow casually did it roll off his tongue? And that’s how he expresses his anger? By calling people faggots?<\/p>\nHOLDEN<\/strong>
\nI think you’re reading too much into it.<\/p>\n ALYSSA<\/strong>
\nI think you’re just so used to it that it rolls off your back. I’ve heard the two of you play your little rank out game where one insists the other is gay. (as the boys)<\/em> „You’re a faggot. No, you’re a faggot.“ It’s cute and all to watch you go at it like grade-schoolers, but it’s also offensive – labeling and ducking the label of being gay as if it were the scarlet fucking letter.<\/p>\nHOLDEN<\/strong>
\nYou’re blowing this way out of proportion. We live in a more tolerant age now. You refer to yourself as a dyke. Hooper calls himself a faggot all the time…<\/p>\n ALYSSA<\/strong>
\nYeah, but that’s what’s known as empowerment\/ disempowerment. I call myself a dyke so it’s not too devastating when some throwback screams it at me as I’m leaving a bar at night.
\nSame for Hooper – by calling himself a faggot, he steals the thunder away from the mouthy jerks of this world who’d like to beat him to it. But the difference between us having it and your friend saying it is miles wide.
\nWe say it to mask the pain – you say it for lack of a better expression at any given moment. No Holden, we do not live in a more tolerant age. And if you think that’s the case, then you’ve been in the suburbs way too long to be resuscitated.<\/p><\/blockquote>\nIst eigentlich gar nicht so schwer zu verstehen, finde ich, und ist immer noch wahr, obwohl der Film von 1997 ist.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Andernblogs bin ich über „fucking faggots“ gestolpert – das ist ja bekanntermassen das „doofmann“ der Gamerszene. Als ich darauf hinwies, dass ich sowas nicht so schön finde, kamen zwei Reaktionen: Vom Blogschreiber unter den Namen Der Homophob ein „Bist Du schwul oder was?“ eine „wenn’s dir nicht passt, dann logg dich doch aus und mach […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,7],"tags":[217,101,219],"class_list":["post-232","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-leben-universum-alles","category-queerschlaeger","tag-chasing-amy","tag-homophobie","tag-klein-bloggersdorf"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/feylamia.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/232","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/feylamia.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/feylamia.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/feylamia.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/feylamia.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=232"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/feylamia.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/232\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/feylamia.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=232"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/feylamia.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=232"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/feylamia.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=232"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}